A Talent Gone Too Soon – Rebecca Joy Lear
by Sarah Hebert | February 20th, 2010
Just over 4 years ago my soon to be sister in-law was tragically killed in a car accident while driving home for Christmas break. As her family struggled to deal with her death I reached out in a way I knew how and offered to build a website in honor of Rebecca, a place that would allow the world to hear her music and experience the talent that could have been.
Recently her roommate and best friend in college, Didi Benami, has auditioned for American Idol and has made it to the top 24. Didi auditioned in honor of Rebecca and lists her as her biggest inspiration. Much to her family’s joy, this publicity has brought some attention to Rebecca and her music. Recently Strum Magazine published a review of her music. My father in-law’s email says it all “I am completely blown away” he writes. As we all are.
I hadn’t been to Rebecca’s website in ages but followed the link from the article. I immediately felt bad because there is so much more I felt I could have done on the site, and more that I knew needed to be done. But while listening to my father in-law expressing his deepest gratitude while talking to my husband, I realized that although not perfect, my efforts were extremely appreciated and cherished. As I listened to Rebecca’s music on the site it got me excited about the changes we are going to make in March. We will be posting new music and videos, updating photos and adding a guest book. I am humbled that I am able to use ”my gift” to share and promote the gift Rebecca has left us.
We just added new content to Rebeca’s website. There are 12 new songs and 4 new videos. Check them out at http://www.rebeccajoylear.com!
Hi Krys,
Thanks so much for the comment and the Strum Magazine review. It meant alot to our family. I am actually meeting with my father-in-law tomorrow to add all the new video and music to the site. I will let you know when it has been updated. I am sure her family would truly appreciate an article on her music and life. Thanks again for your thoughts and prayers. I know my husband would agree with your comment about the edges of the rock softening but always being there. I am thinking of you as well as you deal with the anniversary of your father’s passing.
Take Care,
Sarah
I hope you liked the review. I can relate to your loss. My baby brother passed away unexpectedly in 2008. The autopsy said he had an enlarged heart. So he died because his heart was too big. Let me know when you get things updated and if any of the family want an article on her music and her life. She was a talented artist. My uncle told me (at my brother’s funeral) that it is like you swallowed a sharp rock. The edges soften over the years but the rock will always be there. My dad passed away in 1986. Today is the 24th anniversary of his death. He was 34 when he left us and my baby brother was 32. I will have your family in my prayers.